This may sound strange, but I didn’t appreciate the importance of facial expressions until my wife and I started studying sign language.
Some of my wife’s clients and some of our friends are Deaf. When we heard that an ASL (American Sign Language) class was being offered at our church, we jumped at the chance to become better communicators, and to learn more about Deaf culture.
One of the things that surprised me about communicating through sign language is that it’s best to focus on the other signer’s face, while reading the signs with your peripheral vision.
Because so much is communicated through our faces.
Want a better idea of how important facial expressions are? Watch here as Joshua Holmgren signs along with one of my favorite songs, Drift Away by Dobie Gray.
Isn’t it amazing how much he communicates just through his face?
Have you ever thought about what you might be saying – or not saying - through your own facial expressions? How many people you could affect with nothing more than a sincere smile?
Today, if you’re happy and you know it, tell your face.
And if anyone asks, just tell them that you’re working on your sign language.
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This reminds me of a class I took in college- Nonverbal communication.
Our facial expressions say more than we know.
This post also reminds me of the tv show (sadly it’s cancelled, I really like this show) Lie to Me. If you’ve never seen this show, you should watch a few episodes. A man solves crimes by watching peoples facial expressions and mannerisms.
I never saw that show, TC. It sounds very intriguing. I’d like to track down some episodes and check it out. Thanks!
I like his pace cos I could actually read his signs and how he interpreted the English lyrics to make sense in ASL! I like all this technology that allows us to be exposed to so many other cultures and people. And yes, it just wouldn’t be the same without his face communicating too! Thanks for sharing this.
My pleasure, Berni. I’m so glad that I stumbled onto his videos. His finger spelling speed is a challenge for me, and I also enjoy his pace and interpretation. I think this is what they call “edutainment”!
Loved the video, Larry–very moving and amazing all at once!
Thank you, Cathy. I often enjoy peeking over at my Deaf friends when we are singing at church. I find that there’s such an added dimension when the music is coupled with such an expressive language. I don’t think I’ll ever stop being moved and amazed by it.
Larry: Hey, this is my first time to your site and a nice article. There is a lot that can be said by ones facial expressions. I always try to have a smile on my face and plus it takes less muscles than to frown, but I want people to enjoy my company. No one enjoys a negative person or someone that will only bring them down.
A smile has the power of a thousand words!
Best Wishes,
William Veasley
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Welcome, William. I’m glad you stopped by!