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What Is Your Legacy?

by Larry Hehn on February 21, 2012

DennisEvery once in a while, we need a good reminder of our mortality.

I’ve had some of that this past week.

It started when two of my blogging buddies, Katdish and Dustin, published posts that included my favorite video – Hurt by Johnny Cash.

No matter how many times I watch it, that video always chokes me up.

A once youthful, vital, celebrated man at the end of his life. Old. Frail. Understanding – and sharing - the futility of chasing earthly treasures.

Ecclesiastes set to music.

How can that not stir something inside you?

It hit me again later in the week, as my wife and I were sifting through some old family photos.

That tiny, wiry baby girl who once comfortably fit between my elbow and my wrist, just celebrated her 21st birthday.

That pudgy little doughboy who I used to fling in the air and catch, is now two inches taller than me and wears size 13 shoes.

See that cute seven-year-old boy at the top of this post, showing off his first lost teeth? That’s my brother-in-law Dennis.

Dennis passed away five years ago.

The older I get, the more I’m aware of it.

Time marches on.

When my time comes, I would love to sign off with something as profound and touching as Johnny Cash’s Hurt video.

Because, in some small way, I want the sum of all of the ups and downs of my life to have a positive effect on others.

I think we all do.

We want to leave a legacy, don’t we?

But here’s the deal.

I don’t know whether I have another 40 years or another 40 minutes.

All I know is that my time here is finite.

And so is yours.

So, what are we doing with it?

It’s not about how much we accumulate.

It’s about who we serve.

Our legacy starts now.

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Instead

by Larry Hehn on February 14, 2012

insteadA few years ago I stumbled upon the Eat Right for Your Type nutrition guide.

It listed virtually every food item I knew, plus a few that I didn’t know. The guide explained which foods were beneficial to my health, and which were considered “toxins” to my blood type.

Imagine my surprise when many of the foods that I enjoy appeared on the “avoid” list.

That can’t be right, I thought. I like eating pork, milk, cheese, cashews, peanuts, kiwis, coconut, oranges, plantain, coffee, corn and wheat. Now I find out that for me they’re toxic!?

It was hard for me to accept.

However, every food that hadn’t agreed with my system in the past was also on the avoid list. With a large dose of skepticism and a lack of desire to give up my regular diet, I decided to put the nutrition guide to the test.

For two weeks I avoided those foods that the guide discouraged me from eating. Instead, I enjoyed the large list of food that was supposed to be beneficial for my blood type. Bananas, plums, lamb, buffalo, red pepper, blueberries and many other foods I liked were on the beneficial list.

And I must admit that I felt much better than what I thought was normal.

I was more energetic and felt less bloated when I ate. It looked and felt like my body fat was decreasing. I even noticed a difference in my temperament. I wasn’t as grumpy as I used to be.

I think sometimes we don’t realize how miserable we are in certain situations until we’re drawn out into better circumstances and get a different perspective. I found the nutrition guide very helpful because it didn’t just give me a list of things to avoid.

It also gave me a long list of attractive alternatives that gave me better results.

I think it’s the same with sin.

Sin is attractive and usually offers instant gratification, something that today’s culture often craves and justifies. In the long term, though, it’s destructive and drives a wedge between us and God.

Still, give me only a list of things not to do, and I’m instantly intrigued. I’m likely to focus more on the sin itself and see it with an added mystique and appeal.

Wouldn’t it be nice to focus on ideas that instead carry long term satisfaction and open the door to being closer to God?

Wouldn’t it be nice if God provided that instead?

Thankfully, He does.

Take a look at all the scripture verses below. Take a close look at the “avoid” list. Can you spot some things that are now a part of your life? I certainly can for myself. Would you be willing, with God’s help, to explore the “beneficial” list for the next two weeks and beyond?

Until we allow God to help us escape from the clutches of sin, we just don’t realize how lost and miserable it makes us.

It’s an ongoing struggle, one we can’t do on our own, but it is worth it long term.

If you are a thief, quit stealing. Instead, use your hands for good hard work, and then give generously to others in need. – Ephesians 4:28

Run from anything that stimulates youthful lusts. Instead, pursue righteous living, faithfulness, love, and peace. Enjoy the companionship of those who call on the Lord with pure hearts. – 2 Timothy 2:22

For you have been called to live in freedom, my brothers and sisters. But don’t use your freedom to satisfy your sinful nature. Instead, use your freedom to serve one another in love. – Galatians 5:13

Don’t be impressed with your own wisdom. Instead, fear the Lord and turn away from evil. – Proverbs 3:7

Then why should we, mere humans, complain when we are punished for our sins? Instead, let us test and examine our ways. Let us turn back to the Lord. – Lamentations 3:39-40

Do not let any part of your body become an instrument of evil to serve sin. Instead, give yourselves completely to God, for you were dead, but now you have new life. So use your whole body as an instrument to do what is right for the glory of God. – Romans 6:13

Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you. – Ephesians 4:31-32

What sin has its ‘hooks’ in you?

What’s a beneficial alternative that you’re passionate about?

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How do you know when you’re blessed?

by Larry Hehn on January 25, 2012

thumbs upI used the word “blessed” in my last post, and it’s been bothering me ever since.

Because I think I did a disservice to the word.

When I hear someone described as “blessed” I instinctively think that everything is going that person’s way, that they are a “winner” in the eyes of the world. Two thumbs up.

But is that really what it means to be blessed?

Well, I checked the Amplified Bible and here’s what it said blessed means…

“spiritually prosperous”

“with life-joy and satisfaction in God’s favor and salvation, regardless of your outward conditions”

Did you catch that too?

Regardless of your outward conditions.

While the world may look at your outward conditions and judge you a “loser” by its standards, you still just might be blessed. How the world measures blessing and how God measures blessing don’t always match.

Being blessed is about our attitude, not our circumstances.

“You’re blessed when you’re at the end of your rope. With less of you there is more of God and his rule.

“You’re blessed when you feel you’ve lost what is most dear to you. Only then can you be embraced by the One most dear to you.

“You’re blessed when you’re content with just who you are—no more, no less. That’s the moment you find yourselves proud owners of everything that can’t be bought.

“You’re blessed when you’ve worked up a good appetite for God. He’s food and drink in the best meal you’ll ever eat.

“You’re blessed when you care. At the moment of being ‘care-full,’ you find yourselves cared for.

“You’re blessed when you get your inside world—your mind and heart—put right. Then you can see God in the outside world.

“You’re blessed when you can show people how to cooperate instead of compete or fight. That’s when you discover who you really are, and your place in God’s family.

“You’re blessed when your commitment to God provokes persecution. The persecution drives you even deeper into God’s kingdom.

“Not only that—count yourselves blessed every time people put you down or throw you out or speak lies about you to discredit me. What it means is that the truth is too close for comfort and they are uncomfortable. You can be glad when that happens—give a cheer, even!—for though they don’t like it, I do! And all heaven applauds. And know that you are in good company. My prophets and witnesses have always gotten into this kind of trouble.”

- Matthew 5:3-12 The Message

How do you know when you’re blessed?

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Resolution Check

by Larry Hehn on January 18, 2012

slam dunkMy friend Mano Watsa is not an average basketball player.

He was a four-time OUA Conference All-Star, two-time All-Canadian point guard, and captain for the University of Waterloo.

In 1999 he toured with the USA Athletes In Action team, was awarded the National TSN Award for combining excellence in athletics, academics and community involvement, and was named University of Waterloo Male Athlete of the Year.

Mano is not a big man. He only stands 5’10″, yet he has a vertical of 42 inches.

Was he born with a tremendous ability to jump? Hardly.

Mano explains, “In grade 9 I could not touch the mesh. In grade 12 I could not touch the rim. But, I was determined to dunk!”

He developed a series of exercises to improve his agility. In his usual giving fashion, Mano has posted the Above the Rim jump program on his website so others may benefit. You can find it at www.morethanhoops.com.

Before you start the Above the Rim program, you are asked to measure and record your current jumping ability. Once you start applying the program, you are asked to measure your progress every three months.

Wait a minute…every three months?

Yes, in this age of instant oatmeal, instant coffee, instant cameras, instant weight loss and instant oil changes, some things still take time.

We’ve all made some worthy New Year’s resolutions over the years. But how often have we made achieving them impossible by forgetting where we are starting from, and by attaching unrealistic timelines to them? How often have we grown discouraged and dropped our resolutions altogether?

This year, be sure to give yourself a reasonable time frame to achieve those resolutions. Mano couldn’t touch the mesh in grade 9. He couldn’t touch the rim in grade 12. But today, he can dunk with the best of them.

The end of a matter is better than its beginning, and patience is better than pride. – Ecclesiastes 7:8

How high can you jump?

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Daily Bread

by Larry Hehn on January 15, 2012

breadGive us today our daily bread. – Matthew 6:11

Have you ever had a familiar verse or idea suddenly jump out of nowhere and strike you in a different way?

I’m the bread guy in our house. Regular sandwich bread, cinnamon raisin bread, even special seasoned bread for stuffing the Christmas and Thanksgiving turkeys. I make them all.

I am one with my bread machine.

A few days ago, while measuring ingredients for a new loaf, the words DAILY BREAD smacked me upside the head and wouldn’t let me go.

When words or phrases hit me like that, I know that God’s trying to tell me something.

But what was this about?

Jesus told us to ask God for ”our daily bread” when he taught us the Lord’s prayer. But did I really grasp what he meant by that?

Turns out it’s about more than just asking God for something to eat. Daily bread means:

1. We’re supposed to be in conversation with God every day. Not just once a week. Not just when it’s convenient. Not just when times are hard. Not just when our team is down by two points with less than three minutes on the clock. Every day. Give us today our daily bread.

2. We’re supposed to ask God (and count on him) to provide our needs. Not our desires. Our needs. Back then, bread was simple sustenance. They had cinnamon and raisins back in Biblical times, but apparently nobody thought about putting them in bread until Henry David Thoreau did it back in the 1800s. Thank you, Henry. Better late than never. Give us today our daily bread.

3. We’re supposed to focus on today. Scripture says not to dwell on the past (Isaiah 43:18) or to worry about tomorrow (Matthew 6:34). God, please help me to live one day at a time. Give us today our daily bread.

“Two things I ask of you, LORD; do not refuse me before I die:
Keep falsehood and lies far from me; give me neither poverty nor riches, but give me only my daily bread.
Otherwise, I may have too much and disown you and say, ‘Who is the LORD?’
Or I may become poor and steal, and so dishonor the name of my God. – Proverbs 30:7-9

What does “daily bread” mean to you?

What’s your favorite kind of bread?

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Where did that come from?

by Larry Hehn on January 10, 2012

I’d like for you to consider something that may disturb you.

Think about your family, your friends, co-workers and others you encounter on a daily basis. To varying degrees, each of them has a character “issue” of some sort that drives you crazy. Take the time to list a few of the top things that really bother you about other people.

They may be major issues, such as lying and stealing. They may be more “trivial” things, like squeezing the toothpaste tube in the middle, leaving the toilet seat up or driving too slowly in the fast lane.

Take each one and boil it down to the underlying character issue that you feel causes this behavior. Is it laziness, ignorance, lust, greed, pride? Take your time and make up the list before reading on.

You may notice a common thread in your list. If not, boil it down even further to the one issue that bothers you the most.

Now, are you ready for the disturbing part?

You may deny it, and definitely won’t enjoy hearing it, but that character issue that bothers you the most about other people, is also the one that bothers you the most about you.

No doubt, it’s more difficult and painful to identify in ourselves, but it’s there. Before you dismiss this idea, ask yourself a few questions…

  • If this character issue really were part of my life, in what ways would it appear?
  • If I asked my family and friends, would they be able to spot this issue in my life?
  • How will I be able to recognize this behavior in my life and shift away from it?

You, therefore, have no excuse, you who pass judgment on someone else, for at whatever point you judge the other, you are condemning yourself, because you who pass judgment do the same things. – Romans 2:1

“Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.” – Luke 6:37-38

What pet peeve about others can you also spot in yourself?

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